So here's where I've landed on all this.
• I am asexual, or as near as makes no difference. Even my kinks express themselves in non-sexual ways.
• I won't call myself ADHD or on the autistic spectrum without an actual diagnosis, but I'm not ruling them out either.
• I can trust my emotions to tell me how I "innately" feel about things. Whatever honestly brings me joy or sadness or fear or hope or whatever - that's part of who I am.
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